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City Life, Relationships
When Finding Yourself Goes Wrong - Part 3: Finding Love in the Big City XVII
08.01.08 | Permalink | 8 Comments

So going to the sea is supposed to be cleansing and energizing at the same time, so going to the beach with a date should bring about feelings of warmth and fuzziness right? Umm. . . WRONG!!!
If it was anyone else’s dating experience, that would be true, but this is the good ‘ol Orange Phoenix [...]
City Life, Entertainment, Relationships
When Finding Yourself Goes Wrong - Part 2: Finding Love in the Big City XVII
07.18.08 | Permalink | 19 Comments

When we last left our heroine, she was contemplating whether to go on the date with the bicycle passerby.
Dating Note # 1: NEVER LET A COMPLETE STRANGER MEET YOU AT YOUR HOUSE. IF THEY TURN INTO A STALKER, THEN YOU’RE FUCKED.
Me: Uh, not my house, why don’t we meet here at the train station.
Man: You [...]
Relationships, Thought
Friday’s Random Thoughts
07.11.08 | Permalink | 5 Comments

Fathering Children
Sitting around in a group of people, I found myself. I didn’t understand how the subject came up but one of the folk in the group spoke about his child.
The man is 31. He has a son who is 18. His 18 year old son is now a father. So this makes the dude [...]
City Life, Relationships
Indecent Proposal Experiment: Finding Love in the Big City, Part XVI
05.26.08 | Permalink | 6 Comments

The birds are singing, painted toes are out and about and hormones are running wild - it must be Spring!! After a hard winter of lovelorn contemplation, I decided to once again step out of my comfort zone. No more online madness - better than that. . .
I think Chris Rock said it best - [...]
Photography
Wordless Wednesday: Apple Date
05.14.08 | Permalink | 45 Comments

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Why Don’t You Call Me Anymore? Is It Because of Black History Month?
02.27.08 | Permalink | 12 Comments

Some Things You Just Don’t Say
My co-worker was on her phone leaving a message to some dude she has been seeing for a couple of months. She happens to be white and her boyfriend of the moment is black. These were her words:
Why haven’t I heard from you? It’s been a couple of days now [...]