Consumed in my own thoughts
as music blared from the headphones
stuck in my ears,
I break out of my trance
for a moment and look down.
I notice feet.
Feet with sling sandals.
But not ordinary feet.
These feet had age to them.
And as I’m making my way up the leg
that is attached to these feet
I see hair, lots of hair.
I go [...]
Luck be a Lady Tonight. . .
Home of bucolic skies, rich green foliage and the chance to take a deep breath after running the rate race. Where is this place – Well it’s New Jersey. For as long as I remember New Jersey has routinely been the butt of my jokes – you know, [...]
So I admit it - I, like over 2 million other people in this country, I wandered my way into my nearest music store, others into their favorite website or illegally downloaded Lil Wayne’s Tha Carter III. Yes, for the first time, I have willingly jumped on the bandwagon, and I have to say, his [...]
Most of you know by now that I am what you would call a Morning Person. I appreciate the title and own up to all that it stands for.
Like most mornings I jump out of bed with ease. This morning I woke up on the couch.
I arrived home late last night (or should I say [...]
In such a digital world, we have so little time to just reflect on our hopes and dreams before our peaceful thoughts are interrupted by the blaring of someone’s inane ring tone or someone doing the two-step to their favorite club jam brought to you by iPod, iTunes, Zune and all of the others [...]
Back into the swing of the dating pool, feeling more confident about having attracted more people, getting more looks on the subway ride to work (aside from the homeless men looking at me as if I’m a Human ATM Machine), I decide to diversify my assets. . . see what it’s like to date more [...]
With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, Lady OP thought that she may have a Valentine for that special day, but as usual I think the Gods use my love life to create funny/disturbing stories for the masses. Now that I am more comfortable with this role, let’s get on with it!With my First Date [...]
Happy Birthday, Bob Marley (nee Robert Nesta Marley)
I’m not a fan of Reggae music but I can appreciate the impact that Bob Marley has had on the world.
I remember watching I Am Legend where Will Smith is conversing with a young woman in his living room about Bob Marley and she looked at Will in [...]
Back in the swing of things again, lady OP went on her first date in a very long time. He isn’t quite black… but he isn’t quite white… So what is he?
In a rare moment, at work when I didn’t have to help someone out, direct someone to the nearest restroom, or diffuse a potential [...]
Last night a DJ saved my life, she played Amy Winehouse.
Soon after experiencing the loss of a long term friendship, I experienced a pain that would not quit. It always hurts when you lose someone you love. It hurts when you feel that you’ve given your all to a person and sometimes that isn’t enough [...]
Just to note: So I made a promise to go through with this date, even after 749,995 appeared back on the scene.
Okay, so I think that I’ve had some interesting dating experiences to say the least, but one’s dating repertoire cannot be complete unless your well-meaning friends decide that you are too pathetic and cute to [...]