What is it about this 28th year that is forcing me to delve deeper into (cue the Darth Vader sound effect) DARK SIDE? So I’m a bit spiritual and I do sort of buy into the whole numerology thing - with that in mind 2 + 8 = 10, which is equal to 1 + [...]
So I admit it - I, like over 2 million other people in this country, I wandered my way into my nearest music store, others into their favorite website or illegally downloaded Lil Wayne’s Tha Carter III. Yes, for the first time, I have willingly jumped on the bandwagon, and I have to say, his [...]
In such a digital world, we have so little time to just reflect on our hopes and dreams before our peaceful thoughts are interrupted by the blaring of someone’s inane ring tone or someone doing the two-step to their favorite club jam brought to you by iPod, iTunes, Zune and all of the others [...]
If you remember the last time you were in a sex drought, getting it is exciting and reminds you that damn it I’m still alive and someone still think I’m fine. Well, that is what it felt like. Just like any high, eventually you come down and start asking questions and really consider what happened and [...]
So when we last saw Lady OP, she was unfortunately splayed out on the canvas by a sucker punch. So I have swatted the stars that were flying about my head, dusted myself off and am ready to jump back into the shallow end dating pool… well at least I think I am. The hardest [...]
Thanksgiving is supposed to be about family and turkey (and house hoping). Making excuses to ignore your dietary habits and eating ’til you bust are some of the goals for many today.
Back in the day I would house hop. I wasn’t one to just stay home (I come from a small home - party of two). [...]
After a long hiatus, dear readers, OP (Orange Phoenix) has stumbled upon yet another epiphany on this dating thing.
So just a general question, how long does one give a potential partner to cut ties with his ex’s? Is it three months, a couple of weeks after the two people decide that they are going to [...]
So in a city of 8 million possible love connections (well maybe 4 million as that eliminates women and children) I am starting to wonder if I’m just too picky to find love. So what does love look like - that last embrace or googly-eye thing as your subway pulls off or grasping your partner’s [...]
It has been a minute since I have heard some new Joe, is what Nas says as he does the intro for the first track off of Joe’s album Ain’t Nothing Like Me released on Jive Records. And, can I say that it is a fitting title for Joe. One of the last R&B dudes [...]
*COUGHS* LADIES AND GENTLEMEN LET ME START BY SAYING, MY NAME IS DUCE, AND I’M A SINNER. LOL. REAL TALK…I promise I’m not going to step over to the other side in response to these ride or die church goin (and non church goin) I Love The LORDians who blatantly speak ill of others because [...]
Who R you… To tell me I’m nobody when God made me somebody.
Who R you… Hiding behind that mask, barely concealing your hurt from the world.
Who R you… Screaming at the child because he/she resembles ol’ boy that did you wrong.
Who R you… Telling me that I am not capable of love because I’ve never [...]
Nappy Heads Strike Back
So what can I say about Don Imus that hasn’t already been said. . . I’m glad he’s fired? - nah not really, I’m not for taking food from out somebody’s mouth. It’s about time. . . well, probably. I realize the one thing we haven’t said to Don Imus is . [...]