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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part X: Matchmaker Matchmaker make me a Match!
01.31.08 | Permalink | 5 Observations

Back in the swing of things again, lady OP went on her first date in a very long time. He isn’t quite black… but he isn’t quite white… So what is he?
In a rare moment, at work when I didn’t have to help someone out, direct someone to the nearest restroom, or diffuse a potential [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part IX: A New Outlook Courtesy of an Old Soul
01.23.08 | Permalink | 5 Observations

So when we last saw Lady OP, she was unfortunately splayed out on the canvas by a sucker punch. So I have swatted the stars that were flying about my head, dusted myself off and am ready to jump back into the shallow end dating pool… well at least I think I am. The hardest [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part VIII: The Art of Rope-a-Dope
12.30.07 | Permalink | 9 Observations

So it is two days out from the celebration of the new year; when I should be concerned with finding a cute outfit for New Years Eve, I am slapped with reality - getting dumped - yes that’s right - DUMPED.
Since I finally passed the blubbering stage (all of two hours ago), I am [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part VII: Cutting off the Ex’s
11.01.07 | Permalink | 7 Observations

After a long hiatus, dear readers, OP (Orange Phoenix) has stumbled upon yet another epiphany on this dating thing.
So just a general question, how long does one give a potential partner to cut ties with his ex’s? Is it three months, a couple of weeks after the two people decide that they are going to [...]

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Relationships
Sex
09.27.07 | Permalink | Comment?

Some people like it rough during sex and then there are some who don’t like it rough at all.

When someone asks you to stop or slow down, what thoughts initially go through your mind?Do you respect them enough to stop or is pleasuring yourself more important?
When you’ve asked someone to slow down or stop and [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part VI: When a Blind Date Goes Bad
09.04.07 | Permalink | 1 Observation

Just to note: So I made a promise to go through with this date, even after 749,995 appeared back on the scene.
Okay, so I think that I’ve had some interesting dating experiences to say the least, but one’s dating repertoire cannot be complete unless your well-meaning friends decide that you are too pathetic and cute to [...]

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Ghetto, Relationships
Momma Loves Me, Not
08.24.07 | Permalink | 2 Observations

Who knew that having a mother who loves you is a foreign concept to some people?
Often, I wonder why people decide to have children. I’m sure there are plenty of reasons. Perhaps, you forgot to pop that pill or maybe old boy or girl didn’t feel like using a condom, because natural feels better or [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part V: May/December Relations
08.16.07 | Permalink | 7 Observations

749,995 must be my lucky number because love has bitten yous truly and apparently isn’t wanting to let go.
So rewinding to edition II, I told you about my EX-citing day from hell featuring EX’s 1, 2 & 3 and following the advice of a comment (shout out to Mega Rich!!) I decided to e-mail EX [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part IV: When Being Nice Goes Astray
08.09.07 | Permalink | 3 Observations

What’s that old saying: God protects babies and fools? Well I think on this experience the ultimate being upstairs classified me as a fool and kept a closer watch on me than usual. I think I am ultimately a nice person, forever a “half-full” type gal who tries my best to see the good [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part III: When Hormones Attack – What do you do?
07.16.07 | Permalink | 9 Observations

So it’s Friday night and you’re young and bored, so what do you do to occupy your time? How about clubbing? Sounds like a great idea. I’ve never been much of a club person – the whole have to pay an over priced rate to go stand in a room full of people and [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part II
07.11.07 | Permalink | 8 Observations

So out of 750,000 men this big ‘ol city, how is it that I ran into not just one. . . but 3 of my ex’s within a 3 hour period!! Okay so this is some serious shit - social relations with an ex is always touchy business. I mean think about it, [...]

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City Life, Relationships
Finding Love in the Big City, Part I
06.22.07 | Permalink | 5 Observations

So in a city of 8 million possible love connections (well maybe 4 million as that eliminates women and children) I am starting to wonder if I’m just too picky to find love. So what does love look like - that last embrace or googly-eye thing as your subway pulls off or grasping your partner’s [...]

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