Comments on: I Decided… Part 1 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/12/16/i-decided-part-1/ Tue, 09 Mar 2010 09:00:21 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: sdg1844 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/12/16/i-decided-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-11812 sdg1844 Fri, 19 Dec 2008 15:57:20 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/?p=952#comment-11812 So very true. So very true.

]]> By: Lavenderbay http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/12/16/i-decided-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-11775 Lavenderbay Thu, 18 Dec 2008 13:04:57 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/?p=952#comment-11775 Fifty years in a relationship that starts off this poorly can't be right. Fifty years in a relationship that starts off this poorly can’t be right.

]]> By: Chica http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/12/16/i-decided-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-11729 Chica Tue, 16 Dec 2008 22:14:49 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/?p=952#comment-11729 I hope the person that this is meant for gets a chance to see it. I hope the person that this is meant for gets a chance to see it.

]]> By: meleah rebeccah http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/12/16/i-decided-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-11727 meleah rebeccah Tue, 16 Dec 2008 21:41:58 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/?p=952#comment-11727 good for you for walking away and NOT playing The Game. good for you for walking away and NOT playing The Game.

]]> By: Ms. Q http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/12/16/i-decided-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-11725 Ms. Q Tue, 16 Dec 2008 19:51:17 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/?p=952#comment-11725 Very healthy and well said. No anger, just the facts. You did your part and your best to make a relationship work. No one should be working to get attention all the time. People do show their "true colors" over time - they may be nice in the beginning and then once they "have" you, the honeymoon is over so to speak. VERY good for you to move on. It can be hard, though. Even if you haven't known them for very long. Very healthy and well said. No anger, just the facts. You did your part and your best to make a relationship work.

No one should be working to get attention all the time.

People do show their “true colors” over time – they may be nice in the beginning and then once they “have” you, the honeymoon is over so to speak.

VERY good for you to move on. It can be hard, though. Even if you haven’t known them for very long.

]]> By: Sue http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/12/16/i-decided-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-11722 Sue Tue, 16 Dec 2008 17:30:31 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/?p=952#comment-11722 Very VERY well said.  Bravo. Very VERY well said.  Bravo.

]]> By: Eb http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/12/16/i-decided-part-1/comment-page-1/#comment-11721 Eb Tue, 16 Dec 2008 15:52:25 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/?p=952#comment-11721 Isnt it crazy how long we put so much energy into something without it being reciprocated and we just let it drain us and drain us until we just give up and shut down like you did here and just remove the person. Its a shame situations have to end that way... I just recently went threw something similar. Getting rid of someone that was draining too much of my energy and not putting anything positive back in to keep me going. Isnt it crazy how long we put so much energy into something without it being reciprocated and we just let it drain us and drain us until we just give up and shut down like you did here and just remove the person. Its a shame situations have to end that way… I just recently went threw something similar. Getting rid of someone that was draining too much of my energy and not putting anything positive back in to keep me going.

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