Dating

By on December 8, 2008 @ 11:15 am

I’ve been in my share of relationships and there were times when I knew that the person with whom I had dealings with wasn’t the right person for me.

When I came to that realization, I made it a priority to shake myself loose of that person.

It saddens me to see people carry on relationships with people who don’t have their best interest at heart; people who constantly do or say things to break the other person’s spirit, people who hardly ever encourage the other to do better and people who don’t honor or respect the other.

I just don’t understand why it is that people’s self esteem can be so low as to not seek positive changes in their lives.

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Urban Thought December 8, 2008

I hear what you’re saying. I’ve found it easy to look at other people’s situation and realize that it is wrong for them. But what I may feel is wrong in their relationship may feel right to them.

Ms. Q December 12, 2008

Some people have no idea, are a bit asleep at the wheel of life. I’ve seen my share of “warning Will Robinson” relationships and I know I’ve had my own share of mis-pairings. But people tend to form the same relationship over and over again wherever they go because that is what they know and feel comfortable with.

I have had people tell me they were going to marry and I just knew the marriage was going to implode. You want to be wrong but you just know that misery is in the future.

Natural December 12, 2008

it’s not as easy at it sounds.  change is never easy.  it’s like a bad habit..like smoking. how come people don’t quit when they know it’s bad for them.

knowing is not the struggle, doing is.

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