Physical Mentality

By on July 6, 2008 @ 12:00 am

Respect You… Respect Me…
Believe in you… Believe in me…
Care for you… Care for me…
Love you… Love me…
Be honest with you… Be honest with me…
Cherish you… Cherish me…
Trust you… Trust me…
Be patient with you… Be patient with me…
Honor you… Honor me…
Inspire you… Inspire me…
Protect you… Protect me…
Laugh… Laugh some more…
Cry for you… Cry for me…
Laugh… Laugh some more…
Talk to you… Talk to me…
Understand you… Understand me…
Help you… Help Me…

Why is it that these actions are so hard to come by in relationships?
Why is reciprocity such a hard thing to come by in relationships today?
Why is it that people usually will only do something if it’s done for them first? For example, “I’ll wash your back if you wash mine first” or “I’ll wash your back if you’ll promise you’ll wash mine too”

Men beating Women, Women beating Men.
Women gossiping about their sex life, Men gossiping about their sex life.
Women showing no support for their men, Men showing no support for their Women.
People talking down to each other in front of their children or behind each other’s backs.
Feelings may not be what they used to be because they changed according to how someone caused them to change…
One person always seems to be making more of an effort in a situation where two people are involved.

Just my thoughts people……Just my thoughts……………

I’ll explain what brought me to this. I discovered through experience that people don’t really look for the God in us. They only see on the surface. Many times we don’t know the God in us, or feel secure enough in ourselves to show the God in us. People fear that showing the God in them will attract ridicule. When I say the God in us what I’m saying is doing something because it just comes naturally from the kindness of your heart. When something is done to please your sexual appetite, it’s done with the wrong intentions. I found that alot of men & women go for someone who they are physically attracted to as opposed to seeking someone who can stimulate them mentally as well. There are times when the mental capacity of a person means hardly anything to them, as long as the sex is good. There is obviously something lacking in the mind of a person who doesn’t seek out the “EVERYTHING” in another person. People often say “less is more”. I honestly believe that in cases like this, less is more headache.

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Observations
rawdawgbuffalo July 6, 2008

in the big picture thats what we all desire, some just too selfish

dan-sean mankind July 6, 2008

Rawdawgbuffalo: I agree wholeheartedly with you.

sHaE-sHaE July 6, 2008

Seems like more and more people are not taking the time to invest into their relationships. They think they can walk into a ready-made relationship and it will just ‘be OK.’ Relationships take time, they have to be nourished and they take effort on both parts. If it’s an uneven effort someone will become resentful, distant, standoffish, disrespectful… whatever.

meleah rebeccah July 6, 2008

Um. yeah. if you ever get the answers to these questions, please LET ME KNOW.

Danielle July 7, 2008

This post hit the nail right on the head. I’ve always been into the complete package. That’s how I view people; in totality because that’s how I see myself.

I can’t stand it when folks cut me off from the neck up as if there’s nothing else there. There is such shallowness and laziness in the world when it comes to human interaction.

dan-sean mankind July 8, 2008

Shae Shae: You’re totally right. People are not seeing the value they possess first off, and they aren’t looking for it in others either. They are so out for self it’s ridiculous! And you’re right, one action draws a reaction. Thanks for the input.

Meleah Rebeccah:
I will be sure to let you know!

Danielle:
You’re right! When it comes to human interaction there is so much emptiness in conversation and it seems so one sided to the point where people are giving up on love as a whole. Lust and temporary connections are taking the place of love and long lasting relationships. Thanks for your insight!

Natural July 8, 2008

we live in a ME first world. i say take care of someone and some will take care of you.

show in interest in someone and someone will show interest in you.

no one wants to be the first person to extend themselves. it’s all about ME first.

Natural July 8, 2008

that’s why you don’t have sex with a person until you get to know them. heck after marriage would be just fine. once you do it, it can be hard to “see” anything else, cause you are physically and emotionally attached. especially if its good. mentally, you may not know that person.

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