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		<title>By: T Caldwell</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7390</link>
		<dc:creator>T Caldwell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 20:33:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually had an associate tell me not too long ago, in response to me informing him that I finished writing a second novel, that books are "dumb".  He is 34 years old, and he does not read books.  He does not even like to watch foreign movies because he hates to read captions. That is just not somethin you tell a writer.

But anyways - I get the same thing.  Books do seem to invite people.  I know it makes ME smile when I see someone engrossed in a book.  Because I know what that feels like.  So now it is like we are part of the same secret club.  Except, well, it isn't a secret. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually had an associate tell me not too long ago, in response to me informing him that I finished writing a second novel, that books are &#8220;dumb&#8221;.  He is 34 years old, and he does not read books.  He does not even like to watch foreign movies because he hates to read captions. That is just not somethin you tell a writer.</p>
<p>But anyways - I get the same thing.  Books do seem to invite people.  I know it makes ME smile when I see someone engrossed in a book.  Because I know what that feels like.  So now it is like we are part of the same secret club.  Except, well, it isn&#8217;t a secret. <img src='http://blog.urbanobservation.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Urban Thought</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7201</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Thought</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 14:45:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Meleah:&lt;/strong&gt; Yes. I'm good. I will post about my time a little later. Thank you for thinking about me.

&lt;strong&gt;Natural:&lt;/strong&gt; Feel you on those ghetto books. I read one a decade ago. It took me a week just to get my mind right after I finished. My slang had increased. I was using more profane language. 

WoW... You forwarded the post? That's what's up. Scanning, reading... I'm happy you passed it along. Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Meleah:</strong> Yes. I&#8217;m good. I will post about my time a little later. Thank you for thinking about me.</p>
<p><strong>Natural:</strong> Feel you on those ghetto books. I read one a decade ago. It took me a week just to get my mind right after I finished. My slang had increased. I was using more profane language. </p>
<p>WoW&#8230; You forwarded the post? That&#8217;s what&#8217;s up. Scanning, reading&#8230; I&#8217;m happy you passed it along. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Urban Thought</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7200</link>
		<dc:creator>Urban Thought</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 14:42:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;S. Stylus:&lt;/strong&gt; Thank you. So true. I'm sure they pass judgment based on your outward appearance compared to the title and subject matter of the book.

&lt;strong&gt;MarvalusOne:&lt;/strong&gt; There is always an upside of being "nosy" that can help you discover a new offering to read.

&lt;strong&gt;Meleah:&lt;/strong&gt; Same thing I said. I looked at the person like they were crazy. I couldn't understand it. They obtain magazines for the pictures. Now think about that. Good to be back. :-)

&lt;strong&gt;Grace: &lt;/strong&gt;I remember doing that when I was younger. More so because we were asked to do it by the school. But then I started doing it in my every day life. What I also dis was create a new cover for it. More on that later.

&lt;strong&gt;Literanista: &lt;/strong&gt;LOL... I can see you turning your nose up now. :-) You're right about those communities. Borders.com just went Web 2.0. I have you check it out?

&lt;strong&gt;RawDawgBuffalo:&lt;/strong&gt; Agreed!

&lt;strong&gt;Afroamericawriter:&lt;/strong&gt; Thank you for stopping through. Reading diversity is something a lot of folk lack. I feel you though. I'm sorta the same. Nora has the affect on people. I've always considered a good book or good author to be a gateway drug. Once you start a whole new world is opened up to you.

&lt;strong&gt;Ms. Q:&lt;/strong&gt; I've known you to be a well read person. It does take a level of energy to interact with people. Traveling can take a lot out of you. But at the same time you discover so much while at the airport or plane. But you know this already... :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>S. Stylus:</strong> Thank you. So true. I&#8217;m sure they pass judgment based on your outward appearance compared to the title and subject matter of the book.</p>
<p><strong>MarvalusOne:</strong> There is always an upside of being &#8220;nosy&#8221; that can help you discover a new offering to read.</p>
<p><strong>Meleah:</strong> Same thing I said. I looked at the person like they were crazy. I couldn&#8217;t understand it. They obtain magazines for the pictures. Now think about that. Good to be back. <img src='http://blog.urbanobservation.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>Grace: </strong>I remember doing that when I was younger. More so because we were asked to do it by the school. But then I started doing it in my every day life. What I also dis was create a new cover for it. More on that later.</p>
<p><strong>Literanista: </strong>LOL&#8230; I can see you turning your nose up now. <img src='http://blog.urbanobservation.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> You&#8217;re right about those communities. Borders.com just went Web 2.0. I have you check it out?</p>
<p><strong>RawDawgBuffalo:</strong> Agreed!</p>
<p><strong>Afroamericawriter:</strong> Thank you for stopping through. Reading diversity is something a lot of folk lack. I feel you though. I&#8217;m sorta the same. Nora has the affect on people. I&#8217;ve always considered a good book or good author to be a gateway drug. Once you start a whole new world is opened up to you.</p>
<p><strong>Ms. Q:</strong> I&#8217;ve known you to be a well read person. It does take a level of energy to interact with people. Traveling can take a lot out of you. But at the same time you discover so much while at the airport or plane. But you know this already&#8230; <img src='http://blog.urbanobservation.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: Natural</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7187</link>
		<dc:creator>Natural</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 19:56:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i love people that read. i love men that read books. in fact, if you can't read well that's a turn off.

it's true though, books are people magnets. people  comment on what i'm reading all the time. i can read anything, but i'm not a fan of ghetto books. too much cussin'. 

black people do read, it just depends on who you choose to associate yourself with. the majority of my friends are readers..then i have friends that refuse to read long emails or post. i sent a group of my friends  your post on the power of One. I think they scanned it. lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i love people that read. i love men that read books. in fact, if you can&#8217;t read well that&#8217;s a turn off.</p>
<p>it&#8217;s true though, books are people magnets. people  comment on what i&#8217;m reading all the time. i can read anything, but i&#8217;m not a fan of ghetto books. too much cussin&#8217;. </p>
<p>black people do read, it just depends on who you choose to associate yourself with. the majority of my friends are readers..then i have friends that refuse to read long emails or post. i sent a group of my friends  your post on the power of One. I think they scanned it. lol</p>
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		<title>By: meleah rebeccah</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7183</link>
		<dc:creator>meleah rebeccah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jun 2008 18:43:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>pssst...you alright?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>pssst&#8230;you alright?</p>
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		<title>By: Ms. Q</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7164</link>
		<dc:creator>Ms. Q</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 04:00:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I've always been a reader which is probably why I have always wanted to write. Meleah's comment fits in with this as most writers love to read or started out as readers.

When it comes to what people read, I admit that I do make some assumptions. It's hard not to! I also wonder if I see someone reading what I think of as an usual book.  I mean, it's one thing to read something from the best seller's list, despite how good the book is - I wonder, did the person pick it or do they just read stuff from the best seller's list? Like this matters! I have read best sellers.

Holding a book can invite conversation from strangers. I have also asked a stranger (man or woman) what they thought of a book I saw they were reading. If they are reading something I've enjoyed or something from an author I follow, I may make conversation.

When it comes to traveling and being interrupted while reading...I dunno. It all depends on my mood. If I'm tired, I don't have the social energy! But sometimes it seems like the other person needs to talk and then I just go with the flow. The book is always there and the person may not be.

I try to read all sorts of novels. Reading definitely improves your writing and of course, writing regularly improves your writing.

I agree with Afroamericawriter - don't read the same thing all the time! I've read thrillers, action/espionage, gothic romance, sci-fi, fantasy, chick lit, self help, classic English Lit (Hardy, Dickens, etc. etc), detective...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve always been a reader which is probably why I have always wanted to write. Meleah&#8217;s comment fits in with this as most writers love to read or started out as readers.</p>
<p>When it comes to what people read, I admit that I do make some assumptions. It&#8217;s hard not to! I also wonder if I see someone reading what I think of as an usual book.  I mean, it&#8217;s one thing to read something from the best seller&#8217;s list, despite how good the book is - I wonder, did the person pick it or do they just read stuff from the best seller&#8217;s list? Like this matters! I have read best sellers.</p>
<p>Holding a book can invite conversation from strangers. I have also asked a stranger (man or woman) what they thought of a book I saw they were reading. If they are reading something I&#8217;ve enjoyed or something from an author I follow, I may make conversation.</p>
<p>When it comes to traveling and being interrupted while reading&#8230;I dunno. It all depends on my mood. If I&#8217;m tired, I don&#8217;t have the social energy! But sometimes it seems like the other person needs to talk and then I just go with the flow. The book is always there and the person may not be.</p>
<p>I try to read all sorts of novels. Reading definitely improves your writing and of course, writing regularly improves your writing.</p>
<p>I agree with Afroamericawriter - don&#8217;t read the same thing all the time! I&#8217;ve read thrillers, action/espionage, gothic romance, sci-fi, fantasy, chick lit, self help, classic English Lit (Hardy, Dickens, etc. etc), detective&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Afroamericawriter</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7142</link>
		<dc:creator>Afroamericawriter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 19:00:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello:

First time on your site via Average Bro.  Well the lack (or little) reading is one of those things I don't get with folks.  I can always tell through a person's writing and speaking at times if such habit is missing.  

Now I don't judge folks for what they read but just like a diet; you shouldn't eat the same thing all the time.  Yes you might see me at the airport with a business magazine, Vanity Fair and sometimes a fashion magazine. 

But there have been times I just needed a lighter fare.  Once during a delay (the holidays no less) at the airport, I bought a Nora Roberts book at the Airports bookstore.  It was one in a trilogy and ended up finishing it before I got to my destination.  Guess what?  I loved the book so much, on my return, I bought the second book in the trilogy.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello:</p>
<p>First time on your site via Average Bro.  Well the lack (or little) reading is one of those things I don&#8217;t get with folks.  I can always tell through a person&#8217;s writing and speaking at times if such habit is missing.  </p>
<p>Now I don&#8217;t judge folks for what they read but just like a diet; you shouldn&#8217;t eat the same thing all the time.  Yes you might see me at the airport with a business magazine, Vanity Fair and sometimes a fashion magazine. </p>
<p>But there have been times I just needed a lighter fare.  Once during a delay (the holidays no less) at the airport, I bought a Nora Roberts book at the Airports bookstore.  It was one in a trilogy and ended up finishing it before I got to my destination.  Guess what?  I loved the book so much, on my return, I bought the second book in the trilogy.</p>
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		<title>By: rawdawgbuffalo</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7141</link>
		<dc:creator>rawdawgbuffalo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 16:53:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>so true readfing is more than fundamental</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>so true readfing is more than fundamental</p>
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		<title>By: Literanista</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7129</link>
		<dc:creator>Literanista</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 20:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hate to admit it but I'm a book snob on the train too.
If I see someone reading urban (Ghetto), Chick Lit or Romance books my view of that person drops several notches. While someone reading something really intellectual will completely peak my interest.

I think people approach you because you seem like a cool, friendly dude and they want your take on things - the book is an opening, literally and figuratively.

Why do you think those online book communities are so hot?  ; )

Peace,
Lit</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate to admit it but I&#8217;m a book snob on the train too.<br />
If I see someone reading urban (Ghetto), Chick Lit or Romance books my view of that person drops several notches. While someone reading something really intellectual will completely peak my interest.</p>
<p>I think people approach you because you seem like a cool, friendly dude and they want your take on things - the book is an opening, literally and figuratively.</p>
<p>Why do you think those online book communities are so hot?  ; )</p>
<p>Peace,<br />
Lit</p>
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		<title>By: grace</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7128</link>
		<dc:creator>grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 18:25:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>People stare at me in the bus when I read the book too. In Japan, the books are covered in brown paper to hide it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>People stare at me in the bus when I read the book too. In Japan, the books are covered in brown paper to hide it.</p>
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		<title>By: meleah rebeccah</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7126</link>
		<dc:creator>meleah rebeccah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 15:19:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who the hell? Didn't READ until they were over 30? Wow. I would freak out without reading books. Shesh.

Glad to have you back!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who the hell? Didn&#8217;t READ until they were over 30? Wow. I would freak out without reading books. Shesh.</p>
<p>Glad to have you back!</p>
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		<title>By: MarvalusOne</title>
		<link>http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2008/05/29/reading-books-invites-people/#comment-7125</link>
		<dc:creator>MarvalusOne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 14:41:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find myself oogling what people are reading too, especially if they are absolutely engrossed...I never interrupt but I always try to find out what the book is and commit it to memory so I can see if it would be something I would like to read too...

Why do people do this? Nosy, I guess...I would say that I'm nosy, and curious, and an avid book lover...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find myself oogling what people are reading too, especially if they are absolutely engrossed&#8230;I never interrupt but I always try to find out what the book is and commit it to memory so I can see if it would be something I would like to read too&#8230;</p>
<p>Why do people do this? Nosy, I guess&#8230;I would say that I&#8217;m nosy, and curious, and an avid book lover&#8230;</p>
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