Archive for February, 2008

It’s Not Always About Black History Month

Thank you, 2008, for giving us an extra day for Black History Month. It is greatly appreciated. Not sure if anyone has learned anything new about Black people and the history that Black people have made in America and across the world but the month is still appreciated by many.
While attending a seminar the other [...]

The Streets Are Watching

The streets are watching… and so is the NYPD.

Coming soon… More of New York City’s Finest doing what they do best… This Saturday (hopefully)!!!

Why Don’t You Call Me Anymore? Is It Because of Black History Month?

Some Things You Just Don’t Say
My co-worker was on her phone leaving a message to some dude she has been seeing for a couple of months. She happens to be white and her boyfriend of the moment is black. These were her words:
Why haven’t I heard from you? It’s been a couple of days now [...]

President of the Islamic States of America?

I wonder about the minds of the people in the United States of America. Are Americans stuck in a state of 9/11 syndrome?
I ask this question as there appears to be a smear campaign targeting Obama as a Muslim. If you’ve paid attention to the blogs most are saying that he plans on replacing the [...]

Lies, Lies, Can’t Believe a Word they Say! – Part 2: Finding Love in the Big City XIII

 If you remember the last time you were in a sex drought, getting it is exciting and reminds you that damn it I’m still alive and someone still think I’m fine. Well, that is what it felt like. Just like any high, eventually you come down and start asking questions and really consider what happened and [...]

Lies, Lies, Can’t Believe a Word they Say! – Part 1: Finding Love in the Big City XIII

Back into the swing of the dating pool, feeling more confident about having attracted more people, getting more looks on the subway ride to work (aside from the homeless men looking at me as if I’m a Human ATM Machine), I decide to diversify my assets. . . see what it’s like to date more [...]

Color, Culture, Race: What do you base discrimination on?

A few years ago, I went to see a Broadway show called Avenue Q with this girl I was seeing. There was a song that went, “Everyone’s a little bit racist.” As they were singing, I realized that the statement can be true (and probably is) but I would consider the phrase, “Everyone Discriminates” more [...]

First Time

First Time
Between the toothpaste and floss
Underneath the silky red panties,
marred only by the price tag still on it
In the zippered flap of my weekend bag -
I am choosing.
Panicking
Praying for serenity
Secretly smiling
I am choosing
Trojan, Durex, latex
Sweet whispers of
trust me . . . baby trust me. . .
Months and months of gentle kisses
breathy moans with clothes on
I [...]

THE ANALOGY

I’m an ocean in love with a swamp
2 deep 4 you
Your 2 dirty & shallow 4 me
When we get 2gether
you get lost inside of me
My waves are 2 intense
AND
Because you dont stand 4 anything
My currents wash you away
Still I stay
Waiting 2 see
A change or the manifestation of a better day Years have gone by…..
Should i [...]

Walk Away

Staying here hurts more than leaving yet I don’t walk away
Watching you love another while I love you hurts yet I don’t walk away
Holding you knowing you’d rather hold someone else hurts yet I don’t walk away
I sit here wishing, praying, thinking, wondering hoping that my love is enough
You sit there wishing praying thinking wondering [...]

Bona Fide Love

Waking up everyday knowing I have life, blessings from the Lord and a family that loves me. Knowing you are a part of my life and I am a part of yours. Thinking about calling you. Thinking about rolling over and holding you. No matter how near or far we may be physically, you never [...]

IN LOVE AGAIN

After such a long night of pain
It surprised me 2 c
JOY come in the morning
After all the mourning
I c things & possibilities in you
That I could have never seen in ANY MAN
You’re BEAUTIFUL
I TRUST you (now)
I will do all that it takes 2 make things work between you & me It makes me HAPPY 2 [...]

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