Comments on: Finding Love in the Big City, Part IV: When Being Nice Goes Astray http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2007/08/09/finding-love-in-the-big-city-part-iv-when-being-nice-goes-astray/ Mon, 13 Oct 2008 04:29:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Gregg Hawkins http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2007/08/09/finding-love-in-the-big-city-part-iv-when-being-nice-goes-astray/#comment-2357 Gregg Hawkins Sun, 19 Aug 2007 01:45:49 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2007/08/16/finding-love-in-the-big-city-part-iv-when-being-nice-goes-astray/#comment-2357 haha I was laughing through the whole thing!! Way to show him who's boss. It's definitely true though, that kindness is earned and not given. If I was you in that situation I wouldn't probably have offered him a place to stay. That would just be creepy to me! Hopefully you don't see him again...that would be a whole other story. -Gregg haha I was laughing through the whole thing!! Way to show him who’s boss. It’s definitely true though, that kindness is earned and not given.

If I was you in that situation I wouldn’t probably have offered him a place to stay. That would just be creepy to me! Hopefully you don’t see him again…that would be a whole other story.

-Gregg

]]> By: Ms. Q http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2007/08/09/finding-love-in-the-big-city-part-iv-when-being-nice-goes-astray/#comment-2343 Ms. Q Sat, 18 Aug 2007 05:59:28 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2007/08/16/finding-love-in-the-big-city-part-iv-when-being-nice-goes-astray/#comment-2343 You freakin' GO Girl! I wish I knew some Stop Action moves. It IS sad when people think that being nice, being compassionate, is a weakness. You were really nice to Pretty Boy and the sad thing is with those types is they don't see NICE, they see STUPID or some such thing. I always feel badly when nice people learn some awful "lesson" and have to toughen up. It's too bad. It's also difficult to balance a compassionate nature with a "realistic" hard edged one. For what it's worth, I think you ROCK Orange Phoenix! You freakin’ GO Girl! I wish I knew some Stop Action moves. It IS sad when people think that being nice, being compassionate, is a weakness.

You were really nice to Pretty Boy and the sad thing is with those types is they don’t see NICE, they see STUPID or some such thing. I always feel badly when nice people learn some awful “lesson” and have to toughen up. It’s too bad. It’s also difficult to balance a compassionate nature with a “realistic” hard edged one.

For what it’s worth, I think you ROCK Orange Phoenix!

]]> By: Jill http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2007/08/09/finding-love-in-the-big-city-part-iv-when-being-nice-goes-astray/#comment-2338 Jill Sat, 18 Aug 2007 01:11:06 +0000 http://blog.urbanobservation.com/2007/08/16/finding-love-in-the-big-city-part-iv-when-being-nice-goes-astray/#comment-2338 How strange! Sounds like his good looks have gotten the better of him. It's good you knew the wrist thing. :-) How strange! Sounds like his good looks have gotten the better of him. It’s good you knew the wrist thing. :-)

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